HELP...my son has a "stalker"!!

bayareabundle · Joined: 28 Apr 2008 Posts: 1

My son has a "stalker". He dissolved a relationship with his ex girlfriend of 1-1/2 years because of her mother's CONSTANT involvement in the relationship and her father's not getting a handshake every time they saw each other (I don't explain them, just tell them like it is). Now, mommie dearest is in his business every chance she gets. She keeps an eye on him just like she did when he and the ex girl were together. It was scary because mommie acted as though she was the girl in the relationship and not her daughter. She is doing everything she can to "ruin" my son's reputation....which in this day and age is not a big deal for a boy but mommie can't let go even though she was the one who said to dissolve the relationship.

We were even told that our house was subject to toilet papering and egging on the lead of the ex girl who can't let go either. My husband happened to catch them in the beginning stages of this but didn't catch the license plate of the car even though two days later we found out through friends of theirs that it was the ex girl's leadership that made this happen.

Does anyone know what I can do legally or otherwise to get mommie dearest off my son's back?

sanabs · Joined: 17 Mar 2008 Posts: 139 Location: arizona

hmmmmmmmmmmmm! This is a tough one. ((((((((HUGS)))))))) and good luck! Sad

lady_pearl · Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 2:05 pm Post subject:

You can contact your local authorities? I am sure charges can be pressed for vandalizing your property & you can also explain the situation to them. I don't see why they could not help you.

Best of luck!

kerry46750 · Joined: 05 May 2008 Posts: 2

You can go to your authorities and get a restraining order against them it dont cost anything you just have to tell them what is going on.

God bless
kerry

Anne T Social · Joined: 10 May 2008 Posts: 1273

Definetly a restraining order should be able to be obtained.

Keep track of everything dates and times etc.

Hopefully after enough police visits, calls, etc they will do something to help your son.

trouble1baby · Joined: 11 Jul 2008 Posts: 2

everyone has a little stalker sense in them but when it gets out of hand you have to be able to put up a fight first get a restraining order you as a mother should contact that other mother and tell her to leave your child alone!
now if things get out of hand call all his and your friends over the house and try to lure her to coming over then bring everyone outside and scare the delights out of her and her daughter because that is rude and everyone needs there personal space and privacy! Twisted Evil

derry570 · Joined: 12 Jul 2008 Posts: 15

We have to agree with the last reply! find and ADULT...... if you can in this whole thing! In this case maybe its the the ex girlfriends Mother , if you can talk to her and tell her your son is troubled and needs to move on in his life. Maybe you can find someone for the ex-girlfriend. Does your son know of anyone that wants to take this heavy piece of old luggage, and run with her? This would free him up to find a nice woman, who mught really care for him!. Obviously he has the support of a loving family, or you wouldn't be posting this for him! Encourage him to get out there (shave, shower, whatever it takes) and find miss RIGHT! Trust me, She is out there!
Best of Luck!!
John and Doreen

KIJIJI-JOJO · Joined: 27 May 2008 Posts: 1605

Don't contact her because if you do get a restraining order and it goes in front of the judge she can lie and say your bothering her. Do not say any wrong things over the phone if there are any of those conversations going on but if there are and they call you record them. Make a police report about the egg incident you need that for the restraining order. If you go the legal way. She seems like a whacko!!! Hope your son meets a nice new girlfriend don't we all want that for our sons. If times were different I would of confronted the mother and set her straight; but nowadays its best to do it the legal way. GOOD LUCK

tupperprincess · Joined: 18 Aug 2008 Posts: 4

Are we talking about a high school crush here, or an adult relationship? As a parent of a teenager, I can definitely sympathize with the ex's parents.....no one wants to see their kid's heart get broken. But that's where it ends. I'd never even think of harassing the ex, and definitely would not encourage my child to do so. And if we're talking about two grown adults that ended a relationship, there's definitely something wrong with that girl! Go find another man and get over it!!!

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